I’m getting married. Now what?


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What an exciting time you have ahead of you.  For some of you this proposal will have come as complete surprise and for others it will the final result for what could have been months of planning.  Now that you’ve made the biggest decision, there are just a few more smaller ones that need to be discussed before your wedding day can be realised.

You could break it down into these smaller categories:

What?

What type of ceremony would you like to have? There are plenty of styles and traditions, rituals and readings to choose from.  What type of ceremony is going to fit your style?  The size of your wedding reception will also depend on your budget.  There are plenty of ways to make you day beautiful on any budget.

Backyard wedding on a budget

Photo Credit: Sara Kathleen

What are you going to wear?  This is a fairly big decision because some girls have dreamed of wearing a particular style of dress on their special day.  It is important though to be comfortable in what your’e wearing.  Remember, you’re going to be in it for a quite a few hours and you’ll want to be able to dance in it!

Bride in her wedding dress

Make sure you choose a dress you can dance in.

Who?

Who would you like to be involved in the ceremony?  Are there children that you’d like to include? You will need to choose bridesmaids and best men, flower girls and page boys or if indeed to you are wanting to have any attendants at all.  Perhaps you’d prefer to have just you and your partner and your two witnesses?

Intimate wedding ceremony

Good things come in small packages.

Then there is the most important person to choose – your marriage celebrant.  Make sure you choose someone who you feel comfortable with and who you feel sure will do their very best to make your dream ceremony come to life.  Your chosen celebrant can help you to fill in all the necessary paperwork, such as the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM).  This is an important form that needs to be filled out correctly and given to your celebrant no later than one month and a day and no earlier than 18 months before your ceremony.

Shell Brown

This chick looks like an awesome celebrant!

Where?

Where will you hold this magnificent occasion? Have you always wanted a garden wedding?  Perhaps a ceremony on the beach? Maybe you’d prefer a smaller ceremony so a group of friends or family can holiday in Fiji together?  Then there’s the reception.  How many people will you need to cater for?  Do you want a big venue or something more intimate?

Beach Wedding Reception

Beach Wedding Reception

When?

When is this ceremony going to take place?  Are you summer people or do you prefer the cosying up next a log fire?  Does where you live become a factor? Do you need to work around the allotted time you and your partner can get off work?  When are the reception venues available?  You might need to book a fair way in advance for the more popular places.

Save the date

A nice date for a white wedding

Why?

Why are you getting married?  Have a think about it.  What does it meant to you?  This will help you when if comes time to write those all important vows.

Personal Wedding Vows

Write your own personal, creative wedding vows

The most important thing is to have fun with your planning.  Delegate to those who are offering to help and if things don’t go to plan, go back to the “Why” section and remember why you’re getting married in the first place.